Living
with a
Disability
written by Jude
 As I lay in bed 6 years ago depending on a ventilator for my  every 
 breath, thoughts of losing my  freedom to live and do ran through
 my head. After 2 months in the  hospital and being sent home on the
  ventilator, I realized the things I  enjoyed doing daily were now more
  of a challenge and some even felt  impossible. Now feelings of
  frustration and anger began to take over my life. This just wasn't what I
  pictured my life to be at age 30. 

 After months of sitting trying to cope  with the anger inside I decided to
 turn the energy into determination to take my life back from a disease
 unknown to the doctors. I began spending my time focusing on goals
 that would regain as much of the life I once had, mobility being one of 
 my first priorities. I realized with proper precautions and research on 
 what was out there to assist me, my goal could be a reality. 

  After many hours thinking of possible risks I may encounter and
  gathering what necessary equipment, such as an Electric Scooter 
 and Lift, Cellular Phone and most of all the support of my Family
 and Friends, I was now ready for my first journey with my freedom
 regained. That was 5 yrs ago, I now travel State to State and run a
 successful Chat Room on the internet that offers Support to the
 Disabled and their Families. 

 I have found that being disabled is not the end of your life. With 
 the resources out there you are as disabled as you let yourself be, 
 but it is also vital to consider your safety and the safety of others 
 when achieving your goals.


Article published in June 1998 
  Disabled Dealer Magazine 

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